Posts Tagged ‘Sexual Politics’

I was on the internet trolling when I saw the following pictures posted on a friends site.

Here’s a picture of the whole group of models.

The models were from a group featured in V Magazine’s “Size Issue” which is due on stands January 14th.

I hope it’s celebrated but I’m sure its seen as an oddity. Remember this is the fashion world where one of its members said: “Nothing tastes as good as skinny feels.”

Sorry Kate Moss but not eating to look like a 12 year old boy is not what I considered sexy. These women are comfortable in their own skin and nothing is more sexy than confidence.

Of course MeMe Roth and the rest of her fat hating crew will probably bash this issue and say that the models are thisclose to dying. Again these women are closer to real women than what the fashion industry tries to push down folks thoughts.

So any thoughts on the pictures or the models? Hit me up at the contacts or comments section

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I know the title may be a little ambiguous but just hear me out. I started this blog because I wanted to have open and honest discussions about Sex, Porn and Sexuality. This means that my traffic is a little lower than some of the big boys and there are times I wonder if I should keep doing what I’m doing.

You see I don’t like it when people are silent about something that should benefit them or save their lives in some way.

Case Number One: While lurking on Twitter I “heard” this question being asked: “Why is that people tell their fantasies to everyone except their significant others?”

I can’t really answer that question without calling into my own experiences. I’ve been very fortunate to have open and honest conversations with many of my friends and what I stress to them is that they don’t need to be like I was earlier in my relationships. You should be able to share what turns you on or what you dislike with the person you have sex with.

However I have heard stories that SOs in relationships are constantly jealous of those fantasies. Why? Why is it that your lady doesn’t love you if she has fantasies about some stud Musician? Why ladies does it means that your man doesn’t love you because he wants to try something Spicy in the bedroom?

I always think that having a fantasy life is like eating at a smorgasbord. You’re not going to like everything so you’re going to pick and choose what you want to make your perfect meal.

I think the reason for so many people dipping out on their mates is a lack of communication about what they want or like. I have a friend who likes freaky women like Belladonna but he keeps dating women who 1) hate porn or 2) don’t have a freak bone in their bodies. So what happens after having boring, non-Belladonna type sex for so many months? He ends up cheating on her via internet porn or In Real Life (IRL).

This kinda leads into my second point: I don’t think people talk enough about sex, period. I mean sex is not just about fucking but I think that there a lot of times that people don’t even talking about the mechanics and the politics of sex unless some Famous Person is involved in something bad.

Tiger Woods got into a car accident because of a supposed domestic dispute regarding supposed extramarital affairs. Now everyone from Dr. Drew to Supahead is coming out trying to “diagnose” his “problem” and women are coming out of the woodwork like the last scene in Spartacus.

You don’t know what kind of sex problems were going on in that house. Maybe Elin was made because Tiger did not respect a “code” that he and her set up (“Do what you want just don’t disrespect the family.”). Or maybe he wanted something more and was too chicken shit to tell his wife.

Whatever Tiger’s issue was I think he could have avoided all of this by being honest with his wife and letting Mrs. Woods make the decision wither or not she wanted to stay.

There needs to be more comprehensive discussion about sex and what falls under its umbrella. I get a little tired of people trying to dictate what sex should or should not be. That’s like trying to dictate what is and what isn’t Black. It’s impossible to put down but there are plenty of people who love to say what is clean sex and dirty sex.

C’mon folk its sex … all of it. Just because its not something you get down with doesn’t mean that you should jettison the acts because you feel its dirty. I say as long as it doesn’t involved children or animals its all fair game.

Of course that’s my opinion and you may disagree but I think there needs to be more of an open dialogue good or bad.

Speaking of dialogue … when was the last time someone had comprehensive sex education at each level of development. You don’t have it at the K-12 level, you don’t have it at the college level and you sure as well don’t have it when you get out off the real world. Talking about having sex and giving you the tools to make proper decisions about sex is lacking and left to people own devices they are forced to turn to porn, books and other people who have bad info.

Think I’m exaggerating. Ask your Priest, Doctor or other health professional why they don’t mention good sex as a component for keeping a marriage together. Ask you friends where they learned how to the learned about sex. Ask publishers why there hasn’t been a major sex education book since Joy of Sex and the Karma Sutra.

Okay I’ve shouted from my soapbox enough. So readers why do you think that folk are quiet on Sex? Is it for the reasons I mentioned, is there something else I might have missed or should I just Sit Down And Shut Up?

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So the Falcons played as well as they could but ending up losing to the Saints in the end. I’m a man of my word folks so today’s post comes to us thanks to Sincerely, Go. Take it way Ms Go!

“If only you’d wake up from your opossum playing…..” Although this song is totally unrelated to this post the hook is perfect…. ” Wake up Baby”……

I came across an article via twitter that may have messed up “oPossum Playing” for the rest of us.

Woman Says She Was Raped As She Slept
Tuesday, November 03, 2009
The Associated Press

VANDERBILT, Pa. — A man has been jailed on charges he raped a woman who says she was sleeping deeply at her home.
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And get this…he’s her Finance! Was this a crime or mis-communication? Maybe he confused her backing it up on him damn near knocking him out the bed and opening her legs slightly as oPossum Playing…ladies you know how we do…but I digress! Humph if this reaches the blackberries, emails, and desktop of our men we may never be able to use this tactic again BUMMER ..(giggles)!!!

Do men ever engage in a little oPossum Playing? I’ve always thought when they were sleep they were out which provoked fondling to wake their azz up..(*nudges him* MY TURN!) and then a little oPossum Playing on my end. I can imagine men are going to think twice before playing along…..but ladies we can protect our little game by signing this Possum Playing Petition and handing it to our man LOL!

Possum Playing Petition

I (insert name here) gives (insert name here) permission to fondle or sex me while I am asleep between the hours of (_) and (_) . In fact I may not be sleep but may be fully aware and engaged in oPossum Playing!

Sincerely, Go

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