So I was at work when I got this message on my Twitter Feed:

“Yo, did you hear about Larry Fish’s Daughter?”

I had no idea what that message meant but a quick search on Google gave me all the info I needed. Laurence Fishburne’s daughter Montana has decided to make a foray into X-Rated Video. According to many reports she is going to be a featured player in Vivid Video’s new feature from their Sex Tape Line (Really there are so many Sex Tapes being forwarded to you that you have to come out with your own line?)

What folk don’t know is that she made this announcement with Brian Pumper some time before the Vivid Thing broke out:

Already there are leaks of the uncut video from making the rounds.

As quickly as the association with Brian Pumper went it faded fast as she stated with this interview she did with BlackVoices.

I can’t imagine what Laurence is going through right now. I had this type of question posed to me by friends for both my daughter and my son and I think I could be level headed about the whole thing. The child is 19 and she could do what she wants to, but there are reports coming out right now that says she’s doing this for some Get Back because Laurence cut her off when she reached 18:

Watching this story unfold, I’m reminded just how sideways this is looking for everyone involved. Back when Montana was doing this for the small company and doing Ethnic Porn it wasn’t a story. But all of a sudden its blown up into this big thing because she’s signed with Vivid?

And for what I read so far, she’s doing this to either 1) Get back at Daddy and/or 2) be like her idol Kim Kardashian (I can’t say why Kim was not able to “act” her way out of that wet paper bag she called “Kim Kardashian, SuperStar“.

I’m rambling and I guess I should stay on on what this post should be about – How are father’s supposed to act when their Baby Girl’s get into porn/stripping? Are the rules different when the Father (or mother for that matter) is famous? I mean on one hand the girl is woman enough to do on their own but damn, Daddy is Furious Styles/Cowboy Curtis/Morpheus. Somewhere someone’s reputation is getting sullied by all this and at this point I’m not sure I can say whose rep is going to take the most hit for this.

Kim Kardashian has seemingly swept this by the wayside that people are not even talking about this anymore (I guess when you date TWO NFL players, have a hit reality show and mix it up on Dancing With The Stars folks will forget you had sex on camera.)

I personally am going to sit back and watch this drama unfold. Like T.O. Said “Get Your Popcorn Ready“

Sometimes you have to follow your own path and hopefully Jaz will find the peace that she seeks. As a fan, I wish you good luck and those who truly care for you will stick with you no matter what.

So while coming home yesterday from work I got forwarded this video from someone who wanted me to speak on the subject. It’s grainy and cocked sideways but peep the action below.

For those who don’t know: The woman in the video is Rap Groupie Kat Stacks who has a become the Internet Sensation as she tells tales about her sexual encounters with Rappers such as Bow Wow and Nelly (Both whom haven’t had a hit since Bush 43′s first term) I would give links to her site but it has been brought down. You can review the whole time line of what has been going on here.

Putting hands on a woman is wrong. Period. Putting your hands on a woman to protect the reputation of a fading Rap Star is not only stupid it shows the level of your intelligence. And to those would were just standing around there filming this shit while the girl was being slapped, shows how lost some of us really are.

Look I don’t agree with the things that Kat Stacks has done. However on the things that are “wronger” beating down a chick at a bar and asking her to apologize is some straight pimp shit that needs to go the way of the dodo.

And for folk saying that she deserved it … how is that any different for blaming a woman who’s raped for dressing too sexy?

Again … pointing out that I don’t agree with what Kat Stacks has done but that doesn’t mean she deserves to get her clocked cleaned by dudes who at this point are glorified weed carriers for Bow Wow.

I’m hoping that with this video, She’s able to press charges and get this fuckers locked up!

*SMDH*

ESPN’s E:60 Ran a piece about members of Woman’s Soccer Team in South Africa That Was rapped by men in order to “correct” them of their Lesbian Tendencies and “teach” them how to be a woman.

*Blank Stare*

For those who don’t know what this is all about, let me give you the definition of “Corrective Rape”:

“Corrective rape” is a criminal practice, whereby men rape lesbian women, purportedly as a means of “curing” the woman of her sexual orientation.

The term “corrective rape” was first used in the early 2000s by human rights non-governmental organizations to describe rapes committed against South African lesbians. A notable attack of this kind came in 2008 when Eudy Simelane, a member of the South Africa women’s national football team and a vocal LGBT-rights activist in South Africa, was gang raped and murdered in KwaThema, Gauteng.

A November 2008 report by the NGO ActionAid and the South African Human Rights Commission called for the creation of legislation to specifically target hate crimes, including corrective rape.

Now that I’ve brought you up to speed here’s the video that sparked my interest in this subject and the reason I’m posting today.

Hearing things like this saddens me because its always placed hand in hand with with being a man. It always go with the ugliness of misogyny and Male Privilege. Just because you have a dick doesn’t mean you get to make the rules. I am tired of men seemingly trying to correct other people for their own shortcomings.

Women are not something that needs to be corrected so that you can feel comfortable about your own sexuality.

As a close friend of mine said in reaction to this story was:

Let’s not act like this is limited to South Africa. There have been a number of reports of lesbians being raped and/or killed simply because they are lesbians. I have personally witnessed men react quite demonstrably to women admitting and embracing their lesbianism. Hell, some even take offense and “disapprove” of bisexual women. Another form, considered to be benign but really isn’t, is men saying, “Oh, you just need the right dick. You get some good dick, you won’t be a lesbian anymore.” Oh, lemme guess…you’re JUST the man to give me this so-called “good” dick. So, yes, the rates may be higher in South Africa but please, please, PLEASE let’s not act like this is just one of those “crazy African” things. Corrective rape happens here too. We just don’t call it that.

I’m going to need for men, All Men, to do better. Much Much Better!

Tell me what you thing Fam! Do these jokers need to be strung up? And why do people still continue to think that the only thing to “cure” a Lesbian is some Good Dick?

So one day I was on Twitter with fellow Blogger BlasianBytch (follow her On Twitter) and we were having a discussion about sex and the things people do to screw it up.

She had mentioned that she had knew a man that actually took to what he saw in porn as real and spat on her vagina.

*I’ll let that marinate for a moment*

Needless to say my fellow blogger didn’t get off. I feel for her as its happened to one of us on more than one occasion. All folk want to do is get a nut off or two and someone has to fuck it up by doing something completely stupid at that moment.

It got me to thinking: Has their been anything that someone has done that has been a “Vag Dryer” or “Dick Shrinker”? What will put you out of the mood quicker than quick?

My Mood Killers:

1) Slurping While Giving Head: I don’t mind a moan or two but downright slurping like your eating soup on a cold day will break my concentration.
2) Bad Dirty Talk: Any time you feel the need to start imitating Jazmine Cashmere but you don’t have the chops to do it, do us all a favor and just stop. I like a good dirty talker, but some of ya’ll need to leave the to the professionals like Jaz or Monet Devine.
3) Using My Dick As A Teething Ring: The right type of lips and tongue – Great. Using Molars and In-Scissors to gnaw on my junk like a dog does a chew toy – Not The Business

The Floor is Open Fam: What Are Your Sexual Pet Peeves? Post Your Comments Below.

I have a post topic for you Sir. Lately bedroom time with my man has been kinda boring. It could be that we have been on and off for MANY years and everything is just blah. I’m more of a “romantic” type person and he is more of a “lets get naked why do we need all that extra stuff” kinda person. How do I get the idea that sex has become boring with him across without scarring his Ego. I don’t want to make him feel bad. I just want to equally be happy in the bed. Suggestions?

Well this was an interesting question brought up by one of my blogger sisters and it is a very good one. I run into this a lot while hanging out with friends. What do you do when your needs are not being met? Why are folks needs are not being met in the first place?

In a word “Communication.”

A lot of people lack communication when it comes to topics that cut too close to home. I don’t know how many times I can hear from the local Teabagger wants to remove your sexual freedoms but ask that same person what they do in the bedroom and its *crickets*

But enough about my feelings on the world at large, I need to answer the question.

My friend, I think you need to sit him down and tell him how you feel. There is no reason in a sexual relationship that one person gets all of the perks and you seem to be left out. Sex is a two person event no matter what porn and relationships magazines say.

First: Sit him down for a face to face meeting. I don’t care if it’s at the mall food court or over dinner at the most expensive restaurant you need to look directly into his eyes and gauge his reaction to what you want to tell him. Many times people have these conversations in bed or in front of the TV and the topic is missed or misconstrued.

Second: Tell him that’s its not about him or the lack of his services … but how you want to enjoy more of him in different venues. You don’t each the same meal all the time, why should have the same sex all the time. Variety is the spice of life. Men should be pretty simple you give them directions on how ya’ll can have better sex and I assure you they will jump through hoops to make it happen.

Third: If the first two don’t work, you’ll need to take matters into your own hands. Make the night a theme night which you take control of the situation. Give him an invitation of a night of pleasure or work around sexual favors around a simple task – Strip Playstation, anyone? (My ex and I used to play strip Monopoly and it would always lead to some mind blowing sex)

Any man worth his salt would appreciate the fact that you are even thinking about improving and upgrading your sex. Any man that doesn’t should be kicked to the curb because you shouldn’t have to work this hard for something you both should be enjoying.

I really hopes that helps … anything else just let me know.

I’m not going to get on my soapbox and have another debate about why I really think porn is losing money. So I’ll just ask you to Enjoy the PSA and post your comments in the box below

I'm Sure They Didn't Even Know They Were Being Flimed

Porn has spoofed many things! From Star Trek to The Big Bang Theory. Now Porn makers want to tap into that hidden money from Comic Book Geeks/Porn Fans that want to see two great things that go great together (?) Vivid Video has announced that they will be releasing Batman XXX: A Porn Parody (see Trailer Below)

This movie according to Vivid will be part of their Vivid-Superhero Imprint that will crank out Adult movies featuring Superman, Wonder Woman, Spider Man and many others.

I like comics and I like porn but I’m not sure that I can even see myself watching these types of movies. I don’t mind a Mash-Up but knowing how notorious Porn Makers are for messing up a good thing, I’m not sure if its worth the brain bleach it would take to get the bad images out of my mind.

I know the economy demands that businesses grown in different areas but I’m dumbfounded at the fact that Porn Companies haven’t thought about … oh I don’t know making some quality porn.

Submitting to gimmicks does nothing by drive fans even further away. Of course that’s my opinion …

Tell me what you think: Am I off my rocker or is there something wonderful seeing Comic Book Heroes getting their freak on? And if you had the Chance, What Comic Book Would You Spoof In Porn?

Yes I’ve taken another one of my disappearing acts. I’m sorry to the scant amount of readers I have but sometimes real life takes over your blogging life. When I first started this blog I had a good steady job and open access to a computer with my own internet access. Sadly in the course over a couple of months, I lost the job, the computer and the internet. [Don't let anyone tell you different but people don't take to kindly to watching porn over a public internet.]

Yes its true, I haven’t posed as much as I should … actually I haven’t posted regularly since November of 2009. I know a number of my followers who are bloggers have done as much as I have. Because of my lack of spirited writing traffic on the blog has suffered. Let me assure my readers I will not let the blog get as bad as it has in the past couple of months.

So what’s going to be different? A lot of times I haven’t dropped a nugget because I’ve been waiting on the right story to post but let’s face it … black porn news is pretty scarce. In times such as these I need to start posting about my times here in Atlanta … I’m a black man who’s looking for some meaningful sexual/romantic moments. I will start posting those crazy moments more on this blog and making it more personable.

What won’t change? I’m not going to posting and video clips. So those looking for Jazmine Cashmere pictures and video can just keep moving. This site was never going to be about posting movies (I know a dozen of sites to find those at and perhaps I might do those in a different post).

So again my followers … I’m sorry that I haven’t continued this for you but I’m back now and basically you’re going to feel my presence in some major ways.

More Later

Signed Mr BlackSexx

I came across this video sometime last week but just now got to posting it. Basically Nightline came out and said the story that has been floating around for a minute: Porn Is Losing Money.

*Gasp*

I’ve mentioned this several times on this site. You can’t continue to try to make money using the same old tactics from 20 years ago. Porn is using the same tactics of the MPAA to bully the people they wish to be consumers. Steve Orenstein, the president of Wicked Pictures frequently comes out against Tube sites saying that they are costing him money but I’ve seen his films and they seem quite boring.

Would it kill him to sign some more women of color to his exclusive stable?

Another thing I caught from the report was the fact that a new appliance that allows you to watch Porn in a totally new way. Called the RealTouch, its a masterbator appliance that when plugged into a computer matches the movements of a Porn movie you are watching. Sounds nice but I’m still hung up on the price. It’s $199.99 for the appliance but it can only sync up with special movies which has a per minute price. That sounds that can be pricey if you watch a lot of porn.

I don’t know about you but this isn’t going to get me to buy porn.

What will you ask? That’s a whole other posting.

Peep the video below.