On this day that has been assigned for to celebrate the life of Reverend Martin Luther King Jr., We at BlackSexxxology would like to offer our thanks to Dr. King and his family for all of the things that they have done. Without the tireless efforts of Dr. King and the rest of those in the civil rights movement, there would be place for African American in regular society much less in Sex and Porn.
The struggle is not over … but we thank Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. for doing the heavy work and getting us over the hump.
Thinking about this day and because we are a sex blog, I wanted to focus on one of things that always seem to come up specifically by those who want to paint Dr. King in a negative light. Sex and His Extramarital Affairs.
Now I can sit here and go through the tremendous list of information that was put out that Dr. King was tremendous womanizer, who cheated on his wife Coretta with various women. Sitting here in front of my computer in 2012, I cannot sit here and tell you how wrong this man was to the covenant he made with God and his wife. Powerful people in powerful potions get run on a lot and we don’t know what went down. We only have rumors and conjecture at this point (Which seem to be brought up by conservatives every MLK Holiday).
Like the following claim that Martin Luther King, Jr was a notorious sexual freak, specifically with White Women. However Snopes.com clears up some of these claims thanks to a letter sent buy one unanimous person trying to sully Dr. King’s memory (In the email Trope “Four Things You Didn’t Know About Dr. King“.)
Several websites deny this claim this just like Snopes.com: (From Urbanlegends.about.com):
Claim #4: One of King’s closest friends, Rev. Ralph Abernathy, wrote a book in 1989 in which he talked about King’s obsession with white prostitutes. King would often use church donations to have drunken sex parties, where he would hire two to three white prostitutes, occasionally beating them brutally.
False. Abernathy acknowledges in his autobiography that King had a “weakness for women” and indulged in extramarital affairs, but makes no mention whatsoever of “drunken sex parties” or prostitutes, and explicitly denies that King had dalliances with white women. Furthermore, Abernathy writes, far from being physically abusive, King was “always gracious and courteous to women.” [Source]
Take this with a grain of salt but I think that what he did for people of color outweighs any particular “Information” that may be out their right now. Coretta Scott King and others refute many of these claims and I stand with them at this time.
Because considering that I’m able to write this to right now is a success for me and many other people of color.
More Later.
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Here are a couple of things that passed by me on this day:
1) As it was reminded to me today by my Blogger Sister From Another Mister, Blasian Bytch, Today is Human Traffic Awareness Day. There are at least 1.2 Million Children that are trafficked for various reasons every year. Find out more info here.
2) I went and asked a question to the Adult Movie Database and they added a search filter based on my question. Go here for the conversation.
3) Atlanta is no longer the Number One Gayest City but its still a haven for the Black LGBT Community. Click here for details
4) Complex Magazine released their top 50 Black and Asian Porn stars of all time. I don’t agree with either list as they are lacking some major stars (Italia Blue, Jayla Starr, Nina Deponca, Jazmine Cashmere, etc) What do ya’ll think?
5) Major Spoilers Reports that Spider-Man XXX: A Porn Parody nominated for 16 AVN awards – Seems like Comic Book Parodies are reaching the levels of real parodies these days.
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So during my “hiatus” I still kept my pulse on what was going on in the Sex Game. One of the many things that crossed my way was a little film called “The Strip Game” that was released in 2005. Filmed by the senior member of the Wu-Tang Clan Method Man it was a look into the lives of strippers who worked in various strip clubs in New York, Texas and Atlanta.
I looked at it and found it was interesting but it went slightly off the rails in the third act as two strippers he was interviewing tried to make it more than what it was. (His reaction was priceless)
Be that as it may its a valid attempt and something that I wanted to do myself. Based on the G-String Divas, I always wanted to do a documentary on focusing on Strippers and Porn Stars of Color. Say what you will, but there is a difference between what goes on at a Strip Club frequented by People of Color and the other places.
I’m sure I can get at least Ten Hours of Tape out of it alone.
So peep the video below from Hulu and tell me what you think:
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I haven’t been on here in a minute and quite frankly its do to a lot of outside stuff that kept me from posting in a year. Part of it was my own health issues but part of it was the fact that I wasn’t as passionate about writing about this stuff when I did when I first started the blog.
Then something happened in my personal life that made me reflect on the reason on my I created this blog. Looking for Porn on the Internet.
I was searching for new Starlets to watch and got enamored with two “New” Porn Stars Safire Flame and Bonita Butterfly only to be told they had been out of the business for years.
That’s the sad thing about the Porn Business when it comes to women who work in it. They have such as short shelf life while the dudes are STILL working way past their primes. I’m hurt as the fact that I found out that both Italia Blue and Catalina Taylor both Retired in 2011. There was no fanfare, no notices, I basically had to do a Google search and wade through a number of Bullshit websites in order to find the information that I need.
After all of this time, I’m still dumbfounded about how information regarding pornstars of color are disseminated on the internet and other places. I had someone on my twitter link ask me what happened to Ebony Ayers and even with my knowledge of Google-Fu I can’t find any credible information to even post a credible answer.
Which kinda leads me to the problem I had with this site. A number of my visitors or the emails I get from visitors were about A) How to get into the business or b) Those folks searching for Porn Clips to post.
To let you know folk, I just post info to elicit discussion. I don’t have any inside information on how to get into the porn business, I don’t have Black Women on Call you can have sex with nor do porn clips to share with you. This site was created to impart information you can’t find on the dozen or other sites that are just about promoting “Sweet Black Pussy” (That last sentence should eliminate a number of my searches … hopefully).
I got tired of having to explain myself both on line and off line to the folk who wondered what my site was about. So when my Health Issues became front and center, I needed to take a step back. However, I missed writing about sex and porn issues in an intelligent manner and wanted to start this again.
So I’m giving it a go again. I hope to have more thoughtful and sexual posts in the future and it won’t be about promoting a porn site … unless they deserve it.
More later.
Follow me personally at @MrBlackSexxx or the site at @BlackSexxxology
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I know I have been away from this thing for a minute but in my defense I have been dealing with health issues.
I promise more of an active roll in the blog from this point forward because I still got stuff on my mind I need to talk about including:
1) Sex and Type 1 Diabetes
2) My First Negative Comments on This Blog
3) Where I Think Porn Is Going In The Future
So More when Get a Free Moment!
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So here is a story from the weird files. Seems that Porn Star Prince Yahshua has an on-set mishap when Caviar from Love Of Ray J – Season 2 (now know as Bethany Benz) fucked him the wrong way. I don’t have the words to expertly tell this story some I’m going to pull a quote from AVN.com:
While on set for West Coast Productions performing with new female talent Bethany Benz, Yahshua sustained a torn urethra and ripped an aligning wall in his pelvis—what’s commonly referred to as a “broken dick.”
How can one break a dick, you ask?
Well, Yahshua sustained the injury while in the reverse cowgirl position. He was thrusting upwards while Benz was coming down; his penis popped out of her vagina and hit up against her thigh or pubic bone and “snapped.”
“There was an audible snapping sound,” Yahshua told AVN. She jumped up, I jumped up and blood started pouring out of my dick like someone turned on a garden hose. It was a pretty freaky situation.”
I’m wincing just typing this story. I was so sure this was a fake story but after seeing it on several different “News” sites I’m apt to believe it.
Damn, Prince … I’m poring a little liquor our for you right now. Get Better Soon.
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So I was at work when I got this message on my Twitter Feed:
“Yo, did you hear about Larry Fish’s Daughter?”
I had no idea what that message meant but a quick search on Google gave me all the info I needed. Laurence Fishburne’s daughter Montana has decided to make a foray into X-Rated Video. According to many reports she is going to be a featured player in Vivid Video’s new feature from their Sex Tape Line (Really there are so many Sex Tapes being forwarded to you that you have to come out with your own line?)
What folk don’t know is that she made this announcement with Brian Pumper some time before the Vivid Thing broke out:
Already there are leaks of the uncut video from making the rounds.
As quickly as the association with Brian Pumper went it faded fast as she stated with this interview she did with BlackVoices.
I can’t imagine what Laurence is going through right now. I had this type of question posed to me by friends for both my daughter and my son and I think I could be level headed about the whole thing. The child is 19 and she could do what she wants to, but there are reports coming out right now that says she’s doing this for some Get Back because Laurence cut her off when she reached 18:
Watching this story unfold, I’m reminded just how sideways this is looking for everyone involved. Back when Montana was doing this for the small company and doing Ethnic Porn it wasn’t a story. But all of a sudden its blown up into this big thing because she’s signed with Vivid?
And for what I read so far, she’s doing this to either 1) Get back at Daddy and/or 2) be like her idol Kim Kardashian (I can’t say why Kim was not able to “act” her way out of that wet paper bag she called “Kim Kardashian, SuperStar“.
I’m rambling and I guess I should stay on on what this post should be about – How are father’s supposed to act when their Baby Girl’s get into porn/stripping? Are the rules different when the Father (or mother for that matter) is famous? I mean on one hand the girl is woman enough to do on their own but damn, Daddy is Furious Styles/Cowboy Curtis/Morpheus. Somewhere someone’s reputation is getting sullied by all this and at this point I’m not sure I can say whose rep is going to take the most hit for this.
Kim Kardashian has seemingly swept this by the wayside that people are not even talking about this anymore (I guess when you date TWO NFL players, have a hit reality show and mix it up on Dancing With The Stars folks will forget you had sex on camera.)
I personally am going to sit back and watch this drama unfold. Like T.O. Said “Get Your Popcorn Ready“
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Well I’ve been talking about this for months and it seems to have been true. Jazmine Cashmere has officially retired from porn. Find out the reason why in the video below.
Sometimes you have to follow your own path and hopefully Jaz will find the peace that she seeks. As a fan, I wish you good luck and those who truly care for you will stick with you no matter what.
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So while coming home yesterday from work I got forwarded this video from someone who wanted me to speak on the subject. It’s grainy and cocked sideways but peep the action below.
For those who don’t know: The woman in the video is Rap Groupie Kat Stacks who has a become the Internet Sensation as she tells tales about her sexual encounters with Rappers such as Bow Wow and Nelly (Both whom haven’t had a hit since Bush 43′s first term) I would give links to her site but it has been brought down. You can review the whole time line of what has been going on here.
Putting hands on a woman is wrong. Period. Putting your hands on a woman to protect the reputation of a fading Rap Star is not only stupid it shows the level of your intelligence. And to those would were just standing around there filming this shit while the girl was being slapped, shows how lost some of us really are.
Look I don’t agree with the things that Kat Stacks has done. However on the things that are “wronger” beating down a chick at a bar and asking her to apologize is some straight pimp shit that needs to go the way of the dodo.
And for folk saying that she deserved it … how is that any different for blaming a woman who’s raped for dressing too sexy?
Again … pointing out that I don’t agree with what Kat Stacks has done but that doesn’t mean she deserves to get her clocked cleaned by dudes who at this point are glorified weed carriers for Bow Wow.
I’m hoping that with this video, She’s able to press charges and get this fuckers locked up!
*SMDH*
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